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How to Plan a Bridal Shower Everyone Will Love

Planning a bridal shower is an exciting way to celebrate the bride-to-be and shower her with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

Whether you’re the maid of honour, a family member, or a close friend tasked with hosting, this guide will help you plan a bridal shower that everyone will adore. From budgeting to invitations to activities, we’ve got you covered.

Step 1: Determine the Budget

Before you dive into the details, establish a budget. Consider key expenses like:

  • Venue rental
  • Food and drinks
  • Invitations
  • Decorations
  • Party Favours
  • Activities and entertainment

Having a clear budget ensures you allocate resources effectively and avoid overspending.

Step 2: Choose the Date and Venue

The ideal date for a bridal shower is typically 1–3 months before the wedding. Coordinate with the bride’s schedule to ensure she’s available and consult with key guests to avoid conflicts.

Unique Venue Ideas:

  • A cozy backyard for an intimate vibe
  • A trendy café or restaurant
  • A local park for a picnic-style shower
  • A private room at the bride’s favourite venue

Step 3: Create a Guest List

Work closely with the bride to compile a guest list. Include family members, bridal party members, and close friends. Avoid common mistakes like forgetting to include key people or inviting individuals not on the wedding guest list.

Step 4: Decide on a Theme

A well-chosen theme ties everything together and makes the event memorable. Popular bridal shower themes include:

  • Boho Chic: Think earthy tones, macramé, and floral accents.
  • Tea Party: Elegant teacups, pastries, and floral arrangements.
  • Tropical Paradise: Bright colours, pineapples, and palm leaves.

Let the bride’s personality and style guide your choice!

Step 5: Send Invitations

Digital invitations are a game-changer for modern bridal showers. They’re:

  1. Convenient and Fast: Send them instantly via text or email.
  2. Eco-Friendly: Reduce paper waste and your carbon footprint.

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Step 6: Plan the Menu and Drinks

Catering vs. DIY Options

For smaller groups, a DIY spread can add a personal touch, while catering ensures less stress for larger gatherings.

Menu Suggestions:

  • Brunch Menu: Mini quiches, fruit platters, mimosas
  • Afternoon Tea: Finger sandwiches, scones, tea or lemonade
  • Dinner Menu: Gourmet sliders, salads, signature cocktails

Step 7: Plan Activities and Entertainment

Activities keep the party lively and fun. Consider:

  • Classic Games: Bridal Bingo, "How Well Do You Know the Bride?"
  • DIY Craft Stations: Create floral crowns or decorate cookies.
  • Interactive Entertainment: A photo booth or live music performance.

Step 8: Prepare Decorations and Party Favors

DIY Décor Ideas:

  • Personalized photo banners
  • Flower arrangements
  • Themed centrepieces

Favor Ideas:

  • Mini succulents
  • Custom candles
  • Small bottles of wine or champagne

Step 9: Bridal Shower Day Checklist

To ensure everything runs smoothly:

  • Confirm the venue and vendors
  • Prepare food and drinks
  • Set up decorations early
  • Create a timeline for games, food, and gift opening

Step 10: Bridal Shower Etiquette Tips

Keep these etiquette tips in mind:

  • Do: RSVP promptly as a guest and include RSVP info on the invites.
  • Don’t: Overbook the schedule; leave time for guests to mingle.
  • Do: Ensure the bride feels celebrated, not overwhelmed.

Celebrate the Bride with Style

With these tips and URCordiallyInvited's customizable invitations, you can plan a bridal shower that everyone will remember. Explore our full collection to find the perfect invitation for your event and start planning today!

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